Real listening seems to be the key that unlocks the full functioning door of all relationships. But as soon as you think you’re getting good, some event in your life reveals you’re not paying attention, and you feel like you have to start over.
Listening 103
To Do This Week

Tonight review a conversation you had and see if you can name the kind of listening you did; if it's useful, play with the three-stage model that's entertained in my tale. Did you hear feelings or just facts? Did you experience compassion rising up inside you? Did you want to give advice, take charge of their lives? Did they think (or did you hope they'd think) that you were an Answer Man or Woman?

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