Sex in Action

At the back of the eye, the retina funnels into the optic nerve, and in the center of this funnel, is a tiny blind spot. To compensate, our eyes are always moving slightly to mentally fill in this spot. Thus, if you try to fix your gaze on a tiny pinpoint of light (a single star on a dark night is perfect), it will disappear, only to appear when you look away slightly to the right or left, up or down. If you haven't discovered this, try it.

To Do This Week

This week, explore your actual view of sexuality; it's the one that's in your body; it sneaks out when no one's looking.
Is it about power? Control? Proving (to yourself or someone else) that you are what you wish you were, but are afraid you're not? If you uncover a role that tries to twist you or some one else into an object, you gotta let it die.

Sex is actually a conversation with another person, and if you both listen and both have something to say, it's a lot better than words. But if either of you are "deaf" or "can't speak", nobody's gonna be as happy as you hope to be.